Or not- in my cursory check I couldn’t find what I thought I remembered- so while I feel bad to potentially be choshed bekesheirim, I think we can all agree that this topic is basically flogging a dead horse.
Takahmamash: Ooh! Ooh! Mine!
This year (because I’m in sem) will be my first year not at a hotel on Pesach and I’ve both heard every stereotype and observed each one broken at some point. I won’t ask why you have granite countertops (ours are Formica) or Florida vacations (never been) if you won’t ask why my grandparents decided to spend a lifetime’s hard earned money on (in part, after tzedaka and health care) giving themselves the pleasure of celebrating Pesach with the whole mishpacha in a way we all enjoy.
(The above is not exclusively addressed to TM, just BTW.)