I do not come into the CR to be patronised or knocked by anyone and indeed avoid subjects that may be too close for comfort in order to avoid confrontation or offending anybody
When I do post, I offer only my very humble opinions.
However, I can say that I always, always try to find the good in people and occurances and I never pass judgment.
It is a shame that others are unable to do the same.
PS When sitting Shiva I would rather be visited by someone bringing a child, who has obviouly gone out of their way to pay respects that not to be visited and yes, I have sat Shiva and more than once so I can comment.