I hate to sound cliche’ but I blame this wife/friend conflict on technology.
When I got married I barely had a cell phone.
There was no such thing as my friends texting me the morning after i got married, nor did I whatapp pictures of my gourmet cooking skills.
If friends tried my landline and there was no answer, it could have meant I wasnt home, napping or the ringer was off.
We are so attached to our phones that if you dont answer on the first ring, pple feel ignored.
Sollution: Shana Rishona – keep your cell phone in ur coat pocket, hung up in the closet while you are spending time with your husband. This should be a rule that pple know. If its an emergency, thats what the landline is for.