Reply To: Getting over a break up

I think that in a moment of extreme emotional pain, it is very hard to think of the “Master Plan” of Hashem. (That’s probably why we see Boruch Dayan haEmes when we cut kriah as Onenim – because it forces us to acknowledge Hashem, at the height of our grief). Sometimes we just need to work through our sadness and get past it. Some folks never do.