Shlishi, last I checked this site is not called “Chareidi World”. It’s Yeshiva World. Yeshiva doesn’t have to mean Ultra-right-wing-Yeshivish-Josephish. There is an institution called Yeshiva University. Many of their students are not Chareidi and date for more than a few weeks.
That said, the way many Yeshivish people date, they are meant to become very close to each other after just a few dates and therefore it can be very hard to break up.