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February 23, 2015 8:33 pm at 8:33 pm
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flatbusher
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It’s an interesting question. From my experience,even yeshivish boys will come to the house of a girl and then take it off in the car. So I don’t think wearing the hat determines a hashkafa. The better question is whether you would be honest with the girl, or try to hide your changes. Sadly, many a people find out after they’re married that their spouse was not honest on certain topics or in certain behaviors. Best thing is to be yourself, and learn to live with the reactions.