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January 26, 2011 4:27 pm at 4:27 pm
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NotABochurAnymore
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and this is why I said it doesn’t NECESSARILY have an affect on this life. I am not sure how you can say “Hashem controls what happens to you” and also say “you control what happens to you”. That sounds paradoxical to me. please elaborate and give examples. Assume for a minute that your schar veoneish ALL comes after this life. Is there anything in that statement that is contrary to what you are saying or the truth of the matter?