FFBBT613 – Sounds like a very easy life for you, and you can dedicate your time to various chassadim and causes. I know many frum women who would jump at such a life (let alone those who unfortunately can’t find anyone at all).
Why would you have issues with their thinking? Because you have found the boy of your dreams, “love” him and want to marry him? As I said earlier, they won’t stop you, but they also won’t support your (in their belief) bad decision.