Maybe you should ask:
Don’t you think being human should be somewhere on your list?
Only humans use proper grammar.
Don’t you think being male should be somewhere on your list?
and,
Don’t you think being Jewish should be somewhere on your list?
I don’t know why you needed to repeat that.
Don’t you think being post-bar mitzvah age should be somewhere on your list?
You don’t need to qualify that you’re not looking for someone who won’t go out with you anyhow.
DY, don’t you think some things are so obvious that they don’t need to be included?
Or maybe you know someone who’s looking for someone with bad middos?
They won’t say it, but apparently, some people aren’t genuinely focused on it.
I accept your point, though. My apologies.