LF sorry for your dismay. you sounded so upset
all im saying is that each tragedy has a wake-up call straight from Hashem. i.e. you will not find these messages in any sefer (unless a sefer is mentioned in the message) or newspaper neither is it from me, im not a navi or a Rav, the only answer is that it comes straight from hashem.
below is one message to see & be shocked
I wish you well & only happiness so you never need to say GEVALD.
to assist you with here is a message that has made hundreds of people happy & changed their lives to POSITIVE.