I wasn’t specifically referring to you, takahmamash, I was just pointing out that if we go with your approach of idealism, it’s a non-issue to begin with. If we are concerned, however, with people who are less than perfect who will be disturbed, then we should be concerned with those who are less than perfect and may forget Ya’aleh V’yavo.
There are all sorts of halachos about what to do if someone omitted Ya’aleh V’yavo; the poskim don’t simply say, “you should have paid better attention, you’re on your own now”.