Rav Shimshon Pincus brings a comparison; a poor man asks a rich man for a gift and he says no, he asks again and he says no, the rich man has shown that he does not want to give the gift, asking a third and fourth time will not only not help it might make it worse, but by Hashem it is completely different he wants the best for us always, only there is some reason He does not grant it yet, asking again and again is actually very pleasing to Him, and shows the individual knows the “right address” to find the answer.
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