Why are so many of you being negative nancy?
To the negative ones: Many of you state “I don’t really know or am sure that I don’t have all the info on the topic” then you give very harsh criticism. With the little info you do know, why the hard words for this young man. you can’t rebuke unless you have the whole story.
Rebbedovid I would suggest to stay cool and not get yourself crazy about what she said. I once had a rebbe I was so close with, I practically lived in his house. I do remember when someone would say they don’t agree with him I would get a little defensive because of my close relationship to him. So I’m asking could it be since you have a close connection to your rebbe that with the words of the woman you are dating have made you a little defensive?