646 – I apologize for my frustrated attitude. As you may have read in the posts above, I see and experience so much destruction and divisiveness in klal yisroel from people jumping to their own conclusions and making assumptions with such certainty in their words. You speak so confidently about things you only know bits about. I believe ALL of us should learn the difference between things we know to be true, and things we assume to be true.
In this situation it may not be a big deal, but this is the exact same attitude you hear from people who question rabbinic decisions, bais din decisions, parenting decisions etc. They know there was foul play, they know it was handled wrong, and so on. It’s something we all need to work on and I respond strongly because of the havoc it often wreaks.