1. Never speak to your husband while he is drinking beer.
2. Never speak to your wife while she is fetching your beer.
3. Never drink the last bottle of beer, without clearing it with one another.
4. Budget for beer–it can’t be expected to come from the regular beverages budget.
5. Be a good designated driver. Make sure to attend any wedding or other event where your husband will want to drink.
6. No zmiros or divrei torah at the shabbos table. Tables are for eating and drinking off of.
7. It is important to talk about your feelings, and you should not do anything else while you are doing so. Therefore, you should not talk about your feelings if there is anything that either of you want to do.
8. Your husband is not a cleaning lady. Don’t ask him to wash the dishes or mop the floor.
9. Your husband is not your babysitter either.
10. Lo Sachmod. It doesn’t matter that your friend’s husband helps out at home and isn’t a drunk and has a real job.