emesvyatziv – support is quite literally the third rail. There has been support (a dowry) for hundreds of years. Without support, the Kollel system collapses, bochrim go to college, the mabul reoccurs, and the earth flies away from the sun.
And CV, it might lead to mixed dancing.
As I said in another thread:
P.S. This is entirely consistent with the world-view of many Gedolim (following Rav Dessler), that they would rather support Kollelim and let the children go off the Derech, given those are the only two options. I’m not saying it is wrong, but it does go back to spending yenem’s money while your own priorities are elsewhere.