Shidduchim101, thank you for responding and clarifying. I didn’t think you were aligning yourself with secular values. I just think that considering that the issue comes from the Torah’s value system, which places a high priority on marriage, the idea of anger is misplaced, and your supervisor’s reaction is irrelevant. What is important is education for us married folks as to what we can avoid which is demeaning, and what we can do which is more appropriately respectful.
