Reply To: How to answer questions regarding a shidduch

chanasara; Thank you for your answer. That sounds like the best way to handle this.

DaasYochid; Right – I was not asking a halachic question (at least I don’t think I was). I just wanted opinions on this delicate topic.

However as others pointed out, Tznius is a halacha. Wearing tight skirts and not totally covering the knees is not tznius, and it really shouldn’t matter what the boy’s standards are. The question was “does she dress tznius”. However,I don’t agree with the comparison to the half Shabbos – texting situation. I see one as black and white and the other as possibly having some grey areas.

Anyway, I think we will go with chanasara’s advice for now.

Thanks everyone for your input.