as a girl in the parsha, i’ve been wondering the same thing! e/v question here is one that i have thought of. 1) why is the support the girls parents responsibility?
2) who do kids think they are to ask this,no, EXPECT THIS, from her parents?
3) when the couple starts marrying off kids, who’s gonna pay? is the new phrase gonna be “zaidy and bubby are supporting” or “elte zaidy and elte bubby are supporting” it’ll hit hard when there isn’t an elte zaidy and bubby, or a zaidy and bubby to support anymore. then what happens?
so personally (not that anyone cares or should care) but i will b’ezrat HaShem be working, my husband will hopefully be learning and working, and the rest is up to HaShem. but i would never demand or expect money from my parents. it would be bread of shame. and it wouldn’t be fair to my parents.