If there are no kids in shul it’s okay for the gabbai to give gelila to an older single? Or must he then give gelila to a married guy but definitely not the single?
He should definitely make sure to do it in the most outrageous way possible so as to insult the most people. Particularly if that will make him seem very frum.
Or that’s what I heard in the name of Rabbi Miller once. I don’t think I should believe it though.