i totally agree with Adam3. i have a family member who is looking for a guy just like you. i believe that girls are brain washed at various schools. It is hard to find a shadchan who knows boys who are working/learning or going to college. But i guess we have to remain strong & keep doing our hishtadlus & keep reaching out to people explain what we are looking for & at the right moment it will happen like a flash.
you have to believe that there is someone out there for everyone!
it’s not easy, but we have to keep going & try our best to be positive. you are not doing anything wrong in what you are doing. you are being the best you in avodas Hashem!
like a lot of singles, boys & girls alike, hoping you all find your barshert quickly!!