“Change the system or adapt to it. But your current view is only going to hurt you.”
Um. no. it will not hurt me. You know why? Because I don’t care what anyone thinks. I don’t care that people think BMG guys are elite or first class because I know there are many there who are about as lazy and low class as one can get. Zero middos. And as someone else said “Derech Eretz Kadma LeTorah”. Being a mentch is much more important for a girl to look for than a guy who knows another blatt gemara or two.