DY: I haven’t learned L’ma’aseh of any of this, but does Mechilah even work? Don’t we usually Pasken like R’ Meir that “Kol Hameshaneh… Harei Zu B’ilas Z’nus”? And isn’t R’ Meir L’shitaso that she can’t be Mochel the Shibudim of the K’subah because of Kol Hameshaneh?
I have to look into this.