Reply To: Is the chassidish way better?

I don’t see how beshows are the answer to the shidduch crisis. And although I know many chassidishe couples who “beshowed” and are very happily married, I’m just curious why you agreed to marry someone if “you haven’t a clue who he is! And neither does he know who I am.” There are plenty of chassidishe girls who have 2-3 beshows, 2+ hours each, so they can still meet beshow-style, but have a clue who the other is….