I won’t make a generalization; I think some can gain from it. I don’t like that going overseas is the default.
The idea of girls running around to random homes, for example, their roommate’s third cousin, for Shabbos, does bother me, as well as the fact that the already skimpy piece of chicken has to be divided into that many more parts.
I wasn’t referring to the guide, I was referring to your reference to the Ami article.