Reply To: Is it ever proper to withhold a get?

I agree with fny, but furthermore, the formula for shared visitation which seems most common to me (every other weekend, plus once during the week to the father, and split Yomim Tovim) already seems to me to taking into consideration the needs of the parents rather than just of the kids, so I think it would be detrimental to start making parental fault in the divorce another factor in custody arrangements.