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I too am discussing propriety, good behavior, righteousness and Gan Eden. Everything I’ve stated is within those parameters. His not giving a Get-on-demand because she woke up on the wrong side of the bed or just decided the single scene is more fun than married life or that he isn’t rich enough for her or that she’d prefer a European husband instead of an American like him or that he is boring or that he doesn’t bring her flowers or that he doesn’t get along with her parents or that he’s just not her type is NOT revenge and there is no default and automatic reason he should give it because she asked for it. And it is improper, bad behavior, unrighteous and a risk to her Gan Eden for her to insist on it unreasonably or to walk out unreasonably if he wishes to continue the marriage and fulfill his duties and obligations to provide her all her marital rights. And his reaction as such fulfills all aspects of propriety, good behavior, righteousness and Gan Eden.