Reply To: Ending it after 10 dates over text

Chochom-ibber, thankyou for commenting on my post but I have a problem with a few of the things that you wrote. You are saying that the girl should not expect a romantic goyishe breakup because this is the YeshivaWorld and not Hollywood. I want to tell you that this guy gave her all of the signs in the world that he likes her and he even told her that he is sure that she is the one for him so try to imagine how she felt when all of a sudden he broke it off with her. I can tell you that she is really in a lot of pain over this and she is a frum yeshivish girl who never before had such a relationship with a guy. She tried to call him because she wanted to figure out what went wrong and what made him change his mind all of a sudden. Even though he told the shadchan after why he broke it off, he could have answered her phone call one last time to talk to her about what happened if he saw that it was so important to her especially after he told her that he knows that she is his zivug. How can you say that this is goyishe? I am sure that if this would happen to you or your daughter then you wouldn’t think this way.