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All tall, very good-looking guys with sparkling personalities are hereby exempt from the freezer.

All guys under 5’9″ who do not meet the above criteria, please do us all a favor and stay there. “

Golfer, it is a huge difference between saying a girl and guy should be attracted to each other, to saying all tall, good-looking guys are exmept from the freezer, etc. Attraction is a mystical thing, which you can see if you look at most married couples. Have you never seen a couple and wondered, what does he/she see in her/him? Many objectively not so good-looking people are good looking to SOMEONE. No one knows what makes someone veer towards another. That is one of Hashem’s great miracles. Short people are attractive, too. It’s just a matter of finding THE person to whom the height is not an issue at all.