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When are you going to give that shiur?
Or do you just like telling anonymous people that what they do is assur, which will create no changes (I estimate you as an 18 year old girl straight out of sem, perhaps Missme? Just judging by how you write and what you are saying).
If you really are older and you really want to do something about this real problem, go ahead. Shmoozing about it here is just not going to cut it.
Good luck.