philosopher:
The point is not to look down on others. I sense that you are condescending to those who arent up to your frumkeit standards. We cant judge others. We have to know what they do is wrong and educate our kids properly, but if we tell our kids, dont dress like that Jewish girl, shez a prutzah she dresses like a shiksa you have done more bad than good. You have no right to look down on another yid, or to hate them in your heart for their lower level of frumkeit.
The bottom line has to be Ahavas Yisroel no matter what.