msseeker:
It may be a true pshat ervas deebur…However they are certainly taking the pasuk out of the pashtus.
I dont know if you are a guy or girl, however Iam a guy so I cant fully understand the yetzer horah a girl has to dress untzniusdig, however I will venture to say its likely as strong as a mans yetzer to look. If that is the case, its a very strong tayvah and therefore requires strong measures and really working on yourself not to fall in this area.
People need to take personal responsibility for what they do.