” there is a difference between a person that’s not frum period, IE doesn’t cover her hair “
Chesedname, are you saying that a (married) woman who does not cover her hair, is not frum, period? There are many, many frum people who would strongly disagree with you about that. They all go to mikvah, keep a strictly kosher home, are mekadeish the shabbos and yomim tovim, say Tehillim on a regular basis, daven every day, and do great chesed (with or without the name). Do you really feel that they are not frum because of that one reason?