DY: Why are you okay with taking carrier status into account when it’s a good thing, but not when viewed in a negative light?
My point is just that if you know about something, it comes into account. Does it make a difference overall? Not necessarily. But people shouldn’t say that it doesn’t matter. If Hashem let you find out about something, it’s to send you a message of some sort, and not ignore it.
This is not about my personal views.