aries- good points.
the problem is that many of the siblings mean well and want the best for their brother/sister but sometimes it can be detrimental. I’ve read a shidduch once and a sibling knew the person i was redding and the answer i was told – i can see the personalities match but nah i dont think so… And that was that the mother didn’t pursue it at all! i am still wondering what she meant. And i know a few more who really mean well but they just want the BEST for their sibling and they want a perfect person.