I have the solution!!!!!
If the problem with the freezer is that the boys are entering the freezer at an advanced age, then how about having the boys in the freezer EARLIER?
This means that boys should be coming back from E”Y by 21 at the latest, so they will be able to date from Lakewood at age 21/22.
Why should my daughters suffer because boys feel the need to “discover themselves” for 5 years after high school? Let them go to Israel at 19 or 20 for a year or 2 at the most. Why should all these boys start dating at 23 when our 21 year old has been in the parsha for 2 years already!