writersoul -“Is the next step in that chain of reasoning that since girls know not to be brainwashed they should ignore everything they learn in BY?”
The ones who don’t believe in that Hashkofa are Not brainwashed, like the OP.
“So essentially, what’s your difference here? Is it that girls can just ignore what they hear in BY?”
They shouldn’t ignore what they hear. They should try to take in the BY Haskofos.
“Why not just go to a non-religious school, then?”
They should go to such a school if they are scared that they might become too Frum. BY is Not for these girls.
“And why not just go into college forewarned that people there might (gasp!) actually have opinions unlike your own?”
Because this is Not the purpose of college. If it was a Catholic college and they pushed their religion that would be fine.
Going to general college and having to put up with their agendas, whether it’s Woman’s Lib or the Toeiva agenda, Is Not fine. As a matter of fact it’s disgusting. People are there for a degree, not to be pounded against their will with s/o else’s beliefs or viewpoints.