To the OP-
I once had a Fundraiser for a Lakewood girl school come knocking on my Brooklyn door.
I sat him down, gave him a drink; He gave me his Spiel how wonderful and Chashuve his school is.
I asked him if this school accepts working parents, or fathers who wear colored shirts.
He could not give me a straight answer.
I could not give him a check.
The only way for these families who moved in to be accepted, is by you getting off your high horse, and make them feel welcome.
By you staring at them with a look of distain on your face will not help the situation.
You reek of Kinnah, which for someone as holy as you, is uncharacteristic.