i hate to defend ZD but,
whether or not they are a halachik tinok shenishba isnt relevant over here. The point is peoples perception of tinok shenishba is the reason for not harboring feelings against them, regardless of the true din.
btw even if they arent considered a halachik tinok shenishba by the hamon am (regardless of true din), there is definitely not as much of a tviah. How can you compare someone brought up in a significantly easier lifestyle which a vast majority keeps to, with a NK person thats only excuse for his actions is his rebbe said so??!!
Point is the whole jewish world is saying theyre nuts and reshaaim, they know this, and yet still keep to their narrow minded stupid ways