Sorry, Damoshe, I think you must be using different terminology than I am, because there is no way in the world that you accept people who drive on shabbos into your community.
I’m not talking about inviting for a shabbos meal; chareidim do kiruv just as much if not more.
I’m talking about accepting them into your community and allowing the notion that they can be full members of the community without changing what they are doing.
You would never allow it for someone who drives on shabbos; why do you allow it for someone who texts on shabbos?