yeshivaguy- I feel like ur being under attack here!! im not here to attack you as I understand where your Rebbi is coming from. I understand and repect your descions to stay away from sporting events. although I do have a question:
how did your Rebbi explain to you to interact with goyim in apositive way. if not going out and being your frum self, showing the world that frum jews are amazing people! I understand if you yourself arenot prepared to go out into the world, but you dont know how many people around you are acctualy jews who are simply not frum anymore and what a hashpa you cab have kn them.
I go to secular collage. YES EVERYONE SHUN ME lol. but its really because A There is a huge frum community in teh school and B I come from a vey modern home and my parents want me there.
yeshiva guy- you wanna see pritzus (no you dont) come to my school! what do I do about it? I make a kiddush Hashem. each and everyday of my life. I dress bAruch Hashem tzniously, my teachers are always impressed by how respectful I am and my classmates who many are Jewish but not frum are always asking me questions.
is it comfertable? not always! but I really think that you dont need to be so ignorant of the fact that pritzus is out there. its in lakewood. its in brooklyn. its in ur backyard. you cant escape it. you need to learn about to deal wih it properly. I think by doing so you will live a much more God fearing life. not only that but side point- I love my collage more than I thoguht I would, simply cuz BH I am very strong in who I am, and the contrast betwee. the goyim and I makes me love Hashem that much more.