Shidduchim come about in many ways and for many reasons. NEVER discount the POSSIBILITY of a shidduch that you hear about. Let’s all get real and understand that given today’s crisis, NO avenue should be disregarded without good cause. And the person who heard negative things about the suggested person, should have remained open-minded as to what the negatives were. Is it that the boy goes to the “wrong” yeshiva or (OY) works for a living, or does he have a major character flaw? Those are very different issues.
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