Akuperma, I don’t know why I’m bothering, since popa once tried explaining it to you, as did HaLeiVi now, but the shidduch crisis is caused by population expansion, so what you say makes no sense.
It reminds me of Yogi Berra saying, “Nobody goes to that restaurant anymore, because it’s too crowded”.
Haga atzmicha: the shidduch crisis is generally defined as a problem for the girls. The vast majority of boys get married, but a slightly smaller percentage of eligible girls get married; it’s those girls left out for whom I and many others worry.