So I was thinking about this a lot over Chag.
I sort of did go away to a hotel. We packed up, sold our house, and went to my sister. Then we went to my mother. I was not responsible for any cooking or cleaning or anything like that.
I had a wonderful Chag. Not doing the cooking and cleaning didnt take away from my enjoyment. And, I was just as tired as those who scrubbed and cooked LOL.