Be careful, Oomis, I may end up agreeing!
I did mean “proposing” instead of the other word.
What does Daas Torah say about it? How should I know. I’m the last (ok, second to last) Froggie to know the Torah, practical Halachah etc. Everything I spout out here is pure speculation.
I still feel there is a certain “lightness” to the proposing, something to the contrary of Chazal who say ?? ??? ??? ?? ???? ???? ??? ?????, even though this isn’t really Sha’ar Hamizrach. The union of man and woman, no matter how sublime, uplifting, elevated has a nekudah, a point of “kalus”. – again, those are my own humble views, feelings.