Reply To: Is there a tactful way to say Shadchan prefers money?

Hee hee…..If everyone felt that O T H E R people should be working

t i r e l e s s l y

at Shidduchim with little or no expectation, then caterers, musicians, and florists would, as a result, probably have lots more free time to be Osek in Shidduchim themselves… because theyd have less work because of less weddings!!!!!!

Pollyannaish thoughts my friends, oomis and frimet! You should be dictating to YOURSELVES how to improve in YOUR Mitzvah observance! Dictating to others isnt as effective and isnt praiseworthy.

pollyannaish – def.: pleasantly (even unrealistically) optimistic

To those who are being Osek in Shidduchim with little or no expectation: You ought to find a way to clone yourselves, because everyone knows the Klal needs more, not less, Shadchanim!