This was my real point here , Instead of of Poskin for myself or posting an opinion that I might think (I would have thought there was a major problem here) I asked a LOR and not a YCT (before anyone says he is) one either and its funny many here did not like the Psak .
I think the lesson here is dont assume anything, If you are in a circumstance, ASK and dont assume. Perhaps OP should have ASKED first