All husbands are abused!
Seriously I see lots of people and how they interact with their spouses and the ones who get along best it is where the husband is constantly helping his wife. I also know personal details about many people and it is the same story. I might not like it, but I find I am much happier when I give into my wife and help here even if I have my own personal errands to attend to, it leads to less fighting, and more joy.