cshapiro
“hey wiy its a two way street”
Maybe for some girls. Most girls I think are ok with a guy who looks average. They dont need “tall dark and handsome!” Additionally there are plenty of very pretty girls married to fat ordinary looking guys and even if he was skinny at the Chasunah he still was no “stud.”
However it is rare to find a good looking guy with an unattractive girl.