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so i just opened a forum as a takeover of another forum…so i started off with a nice userbase. only 7- users now but they are REALLY active! and im the only mod/admin. it is a full time job. srsly. wow…so much work.
what site? im thinking of leaving this one…. lol
what adorable said
And miss all of my chochmas?
Oh well, its your call….
jinx….x3
bpt- well you dont wanna comment on the threads that i want you to…. all kidding aside you have no clue how much some of the things you said affected me. i will admit that I always had this “hang up” that why should i wanna get married and have to deal with all the technical halachos and always have to make supper, be there for my husband and kids…. i would just rather have a boy friend and have no commitment, but your comment really changed my view and i am not eagerly awaiting my chance!!!
Ok, I changed my mind about no further comments. Your last post deserves one. Here it is:
Grow up.
get out of here. go away if you have nothing nice to say
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bpt
im pretty sure that was a typo and she meant i am NOW eagerly awaiting my chance!!!
adorable
it was a mistke
ok please change my post to now but i dont understand what i said that warranted such a comment. you guys are so mean. im outta hear
It hppns
OK, that single word makes a HUGE difference, especially when read in the context of the rest of the post:
*I always had this “hang up” that why should i wanna get married and have to deal with all the technical halachos
*always have to make supper, be there for my husband and kids….
*i would just rather have a boy friend and have no commitment
That, and the comment earlier today on the topic of mixed gender friends (that a married man is less of a problem!)
OK, giant step back. Re-read with the word NOW, changes the whole thing.
Now that this is cleared up, next week we can start the madness and mayhem all over again!
Lol bomb, I’m also rather confused!
You’re probably confused because you read adorable’s comment as a HUGE compliment to bpt & he responded as if he was disrespected.
Adorable was writing how she used to have a more negative outlook on marriage until bpt in his wisdom made a comment that “REALLY CHANGED MY VIEW.”
This is a huge compliment and a big feather in anyone’s cap to have effected such a dramatic change in attitude to a way more positive one.
We understood this despite the typo.
Could we all focus on bein adam l’chaveiro here in the CR especially in light of what’s going on in the world currently?
TYIA
I don’t get what it has to do with bomb’s new forum
whatever the case is, i gave bpt a compliment and just got slapped in the face really really hard so have a great life all of you and for now Im out of here.
bombmaniac, sorry about what happened to your thread 🙁
From what you said, your forum sounds really cool! I hope it has lots of success!
Good Luck, Bomb
Hatzlacha, bombmaniac, on your new forum
Make sure for the readers’ sake you never bore ’em
You sound like it’s hard work but don’t despair
If you ever need a break, come back over here 🙂
How do apply for the mod job on your forum? Do I have to go through another 4 years of rigorous training at the Moderator Academy or is my MYWM good enough?
“We understood this despite the typo.”
Too bad I didn’t have you sitting by my side to clairify what was meant, as I obviously totally missed the true intent.
“he responded as if he was disrespected.”
Not me, that I took to being disrespected. It was the sanctity of marraige I thought was under attack
And you do make a very important point: words can do much good or C’V much harm.
And sorry (as is the case here) doesn’t always work.
Still, I’ve had my fair share of positive, supportive, encouraging posts, so hopefully, I’ll be judged by the larger picture.
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